Create your ideal intimate and
sexual relationship(s).
Sex, Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
Wayne LeSane
1971 Washington D.C.- I was born and raised in a culture of hidden and repressed emotions. Through life’s journeys, travel, and gained experiences, I was able to unlearn and let go of a lot of conditioning from childhood around intimacy, sex and relationships.
I have been consciously non-monogamous for about 25 years, including my current relationship and marriage of 19 years.
I absolutely love talking about sex and relationships, especially dating culture and non-monogamy with anyone who is open to engage and explore. My strength lies in my ability to help folks see all the options that are truly in front of them and to help make their desires reality by getting as creative as they want to be.
Why I do what I do...
Tony
Los Angeles, CA
I have worked with Wayne Lesane for over 20 years in seeking coaching on relationship issues and, more importantly, learning the concept of loving myself in order to love others. Wayne's approach is amazing. Not only does he have an acute ability to understand the dynamics of all sorts of relationships, he really understands people. Wayne walked me through my journey and helped me get to my conclusions independently, even though he implicitly knew ultimately where I would end up.
While I was in numerous relationships (ethically monogamous and ethically non-monogamous) continually over the last 20 years, it was Wayne that showed me the difference between being lonely, and being alone. He showed me that in order to be present in relationships, I needed to understand how to be present for myself first. I would not be where I am growth wise without his counsel.
I appreciate the manner in which he helped change my life in this regard. I am a better person because of him.
Dana
Atlanta, GA
I have been going to Wayne for years for relationship advice so when I heard he was now a certified coach, it made perfect sense.
He's SO easy to talk to which is very important when discussing personal issues regarding sex and relationships. He gives a very balanced perspective and TRULY listens to what you are saying. I have already encouraged a few of my closest friends, who are weary about discussing these topics, to schedule a consultation. I genuinely feel that the more we, as a whole, feel comfortable speaking about our intimate experiences, relationships OVER ALL will improve!
Renee
Los Angeles, CA
Mr. LeSane is an innovative thinker with an immense talent for helping couples navigate new territory and relationship challenges.
Desmond
Los Angeles, CA
Working with Wayne has been an absolutely eye opening experience. His ability to empathize with my background, while simultaneously, compassionately and patiently holding me accountable for shaping my own emotional, intimacy, and relational future honestly FAR exceeded any expectation I had going in.
How We Can Work Together
1-on1 Coaching
Personal guidance on your journey toward your ideal sexual self and relationship(s) goals.
Group Coaching
Benefit from the unique experience of like-minded people sharing their personal experiences and working together through trial and error and on many different aspects around relationship(s) intimacy and sex.
Ethical Non-Monogamy Consulting
New to ethical non-monogamy or interested in it but feeling conflicted and/or struggling with how to put your vision into action? Let's do it together in a very intentional way that helps you get what you need and desire, and feel willing and enthusiastic.
Men's Sex & Intimacy Issues
Come and join me in a safe space to ask questions, be vulnerable, and confront challenges you're facing around pleasure, intimacy, sexual desires, shame, guilt, and freedom.
It starts with you...
Remove all the pressure of norms, shame and guilt and imagine for yourself your most desired relationship(s) and sexual self. And then let's figure out how to make that possible.
